We all know that cubic
zirconias and other gemstone simulants can be substituted for the real
thing, but did you know that supposed "real" gemstones can actually
be layers of the real thing AND fakes? Unscrupulous wholesalers have found
ways to fuse real gemstones to a base of a similar but fake mineral or
man-made substance in an effort to trick less than careful stone buyers.
Buyers who don't thoroughly test stones can miss these "doublets"
and "triplets" - named for the number of layers fused together
- and pass these stones on to the public in ignorance. So when buying
an unusually expensive gemstone, it is always a good idea to question
your jeweler to be sure they have thoroughly examined the stone to rule
out these fakes. Some jewelry are made with doublet and triplets - opal
jewelry and birthstone jewelry in particular - and this is considered
appropriate to industry standards because they are not represented incorrectly
or sold for more than they are worth. But when buying a high-quality,
expensive sapphire or other colored stone, buying from a reputable jeweler
is the safest way to go.
First of all, let me
assure you that our jewelry is purchased from industry known manufacturers
such as Quality Gold of Cincinnati, and we guarantee the quality and
the content to be as described in our web catalog. Our prices are low
because our overhead is low, and if you were to come here to the shop
and want to order something in the ready-made jewelry line, we would
show you the very same items which are on display here in our online
catalog. Our money-back guarantee assures you that you are buying quality
jewelry items, and our commitment to our community, as well as to the
web shopping community, means we will be here tomorrow if you have any
questions about your jewelry purchase.
But, where there is money there is greed, and where there is greed
there are crooks...it's a sad fact, but its true. Just remember, for
every unscrupulous TV special jeweler who cheated some network news
team, there are thousands upon thousands of honest, hard working jewelers
who are just as appalled as you are. For generations it has fallen to
the honest jeweler to tell unfortunate customers that somebody else
has cheated them. It is as difficult for us to tell as it is for you
to hear. So, if you want to take advantage of the savings and buy on
the web, make sure there is a jeweler behind the jewelry service; someone
who can help you make wise decisions and will be eager to develop a
relationship with you.
You should also find
a local jeweler who is reliable and who has ties to your community.
Ask them questions. Do they repair on the premises or send the jewelry
off site? Do they have a gemologist on the premises? Do they belong
to any jewelry-related associations? Develop a relationship by stopping
in to have your jewelry cleaned, or to ask general jewelry questions.
Are they willing to cultivate a relationship with you, or simply out
to sell you something? This can make a real difference in your buying
experiences. Buy lab certified diamonds if you aren't sure who to trust,
and have your current diamonds appraised.
If you don't have a lab certified stone, you can send your stone to
be certified. A less expensive route is to have a gemologist appraise
your stone and include a stone "plot" (a map of the inclusions
within the stone), so you'll be able to turn your ring in for repairs
with confidence. When you turn your diamond in for repair work to the
mounting, tell your jeweler up front you want to verify that it is your
stone before it goes for repair (to protect you both), and make sure
your repair ticket is very specific about your stone and mounting. Read
the fine print on the repair ticket. Remember to recheck your stone
when it comes back and don't accept return of the stone if it is not
right. Leave it there and go get a certified gemologist to come back
with you and deal with the jeweler for you (a hired gun, so to speak).
In general, if the jeweler won't show you the stone under magnification
to help reassure you, or if they give you a hard time, find another
jeweler who will.
But please remember, no one likes being treated like a criminal, especially
when they handle thousands of dollars of diamonds and jewelry every
day which is sent to them simply on trust. Our industry runs on reputation,
ratings and handshakes. So while you can and should look out for your
stones, you can do so without treating your jeweler like a potential
felon. Make it clear to him or her that you are only trying to protect
you BOTH from misunderstandings.
We hope this information has been of assistance to you as you shop
here at Mrs. Gottrocks. Please feel free to email
us with your questions or suggestions for future topics.